Anonymous asked:
What do you mean he had malicious intent? How could a bf want to harm you?... You guys looked perfect for each other... =///
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clothesmindedx3 answered:
That’s the thing about social media, it’s so easy to deceive people. I painted the prettiest picture for social media and I made it seem like I was happy, when in fact, I was truly miserable and didn’t know how to get out of it because I felt threatened. I didn’t divulgate the truth because I tried to protect myself and the reality of it all. He tried to tear down everything I worked for in the last two years, everything I built myself up to be, he tried to manipulate my confidence and kill my self esteem. That shouldn’t happen in a relationship at all and he constantly did that. That’s why it’s so important for us to value ourselves and know our worth, when you are aware of your worth you know what you deserve. And I didn’t deserve what he put me through at all. I’m such a happy person and he just made me angry and doubtful all the time. It’s so easy to lose ourselves through hardships and for a while there, I felt like I was going to end up right back where I started, back in a labyrinth of self doubt and depression. That’s also why I stress the importance of self love, because when you love yourself you are not dependent on anyone to feel make you feel complete because you make yourself whole, you know yourself and accept yourself and you won’t stand for anyone tainting your spirits or your overall being. When you love yourself you know what you deserve and you won’t settle for less. I certainly couldn’t allow myself to continue to settle for him. I rather be alone than miserable in his company.
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